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Deja Dead
Kathy Reichs

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The Perfect Storm
(I never want to go out
in a boat again!)

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28 August 2001

There was an article by a columnist for The Davis Enterprise in today's paper. She's a columnist with whom I usually agree and this particular column talks about what it's like to write a column on a deadline, once or twice a week. How it should be structured, and how it should be no more than 850 words.

I was curious and pulled up several recent journal entries and discovered that I'm probably averaging about 850 words an entry--some a bit longer, some a bit shorter, but basically they're each about 850 words.

I always wanted to write a newspaper column. So I decided I'm going to work more on making this column-like. I suspect nobody will notice a difference, but it will be a discipline for me--can I say what I need to say in 850 words...filling if I don't have that many words, tightening up if I tend to ramble.

Of course I've decided to start thinking of this as a daily column on a day where there is pretty much nothing to report. But I like to give myself a challenge!

Well, I guess that's not really true. I do have something to report.  After about a month or more, I finally drove Priscilla to the clinic again this morning. What with our traveling, and all the volunteers at Breaking Barriers fighting over who gets to drive Priscilla, it just hasn't worked out for us to get together.

Actually, I was scheduled to drive her both Saturday and Sunday and I just about died when she called here at 9:15 on Saturday to ask where I was. I had just plain forgotten. It's about a 40 minute drive to her house and I managed to make it in 30 minutes, driving 80 mph, but the clinic where she gets her injection each day closes at 10, and so as I pulled up in front of her house, her son let me know that she had just left 2 minutes before with a neighbor. I don't blame her, but I felt so bad for letting her down.

This is the worst possible time to let her down. There are more woes in Priscilla's life. Her mother, who had a stroke several months ago and who suffers from diabetes, had to have a leg amputated and there is talk of amputating an arm. Priscilla is just beside herself with worry about her mother, so much so that she has put off her own chemotherapy.

Adding to the general worry about her mother, her brother, who has been taking care of the mother since her stroke, for some reason doesn't want other people in the family around her, so when he discovered Priscilla had been at the hospital, he moved the mother to an undisclosed location and, as he has power of attorney, he told the hospital staff not to give information to the family

There is some concern about possible elder abuse, and so I've been calling around for information and advice today and have encouraged Priscilla to call Adult Protective Services to see if they will do an investigation. The mother has lost about 100 lbs in the past year and Priscilla reports that she looks like an Ethiopian refugee, with a wrist so thin Priscilla is able to circle it with the fingers on one hand.

Priscilla could hardly walk this morning, she's in such pain, and now she's having heart palpitations (undoubtedly due to the stress). I felt so sorry for her. The doctors have told her that if she doesn't start her treatment again, she is going to die, but she feels she can't take care of herself until she knows her mother is all right.

As if that weren't enough, she says she managed to get enough money to put together a box of things like soap and peanuts and other little things to send to her son, who is in prison doing a life sentence. Before she could get it mailed, her sister, who is a drug addict, opened the box and stole all the things.

Nothing ever goes right for Priscilla. It breaks my heart when she tells me of her worries about her family and cries because she feels so helpless. It also makes me feel guilty when I learn how hard she had to save to put together a box for her son, when the cost would have been nothing to me. It's all relative.

I've promised to give her a ride to the prison on Friday so she can visit with her son. It will give me the opportunity to go for a walk while she's visiting, if the temperatures aren't too high.

The rest of the weekend was spent putting the cabinet under the kitchen sink back in order after Walt installed a new garbage disposal.

Not exactly riveting, this account. Or, as Paul would have said "It's not a good story, it's just what happened." (But at least it's just about the right length -- 845 words!)

See? I can do this!

One Year Ago:
Psychic Woman

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