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18 July 2017
Apparently my mother doesn't hate me any more. This is nice to know.
I got to Atria around noon yesterday, thinking I'd sit at her table and have coffee while she ate lunch, but they told me she had gone back to bed, so I went to her apartment and told her I would take her out to lunch. She smiled and was happy to see me, though said she hurt "everywhere," including down her legs and under her arm.
I got her up and we went out to the front of Atria. It was a hot day -- mid 90s -- and I could only find a place to park a block away and didn't want to make her walk that far, so I parked her on a bench by the front door and let the woman at the desk know that I was going to get the car and that she should be aware of my mother in case she wandered off.
But she didn't. She was still there when I drove up and we both enjoyed the air conditioning blowing in our faces.
We drove to IHOP, which is very close to Kaiser. The timing could not have been better. Her appointment was at 1:50 and we finished lunch at 1:25.
She beamed when she looked around, said it was a nice restaurant and she had no been there before (we've eaten there several times). It was good to see her smiling, after the horrible visit on Thursday.
Menus overwhelm her, so I usually give her a choice of two things. This time it was easy because IHOP had its berry-themed menu and I gave her a choice of French toast with berries or crepes with berries. We both agreed on the French toast. When it came, she said it was enough for three meals, and I have to admit I can't believe she ate the whole thing!
Her appetite is never as small as she thinks and generally speaking, if you put something in front her she will eat it.
We were in plenty of time for her appointment. She's not good at waiting because she can never remember where she is and why she's there, and once we are taken to the exam room she can't understand why it is taking so long for the doctor to arrive.
But while waiting, she rhapsodized over the beautiful leaves she could see out the window. Never knew anybody who loved trees and leaves as much as she does!
The exam went well, again, though her blood pressure was low and she's lost 7 lbs this year so the doctor made some adjustments in her meds. But she is given a clean bill of health until she is about to turn 99 (she turns 98 in a little over a month).
I can no longer drop her off at Atria and trust she will find her apartment on her own, so I walked her down to the memory unit (apparently I can ask for someone from the memory unit to come and get her, but that doesn't seem right). I sat in her apartment for a bit, but we were both tired and I was either going to fall asleep in the chair or get up enough energy to get out of the chair and walk back down to the car.
I slept for over 2 hours after I got home.
These days probably take more out of me emotionally than physically, but I
do come home absolutely drained. Now I take a day off and then I take
her to get her hair cut at the Atria beauty salon, which is going to be a
lot less emotional than a doctor's appointment.
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